Transcript for "Advice 2"

Ese lundi khulisina liange Mary Nasimiyu oyoyo ndenyanga khulosiakho ebukambi khukambakho elubeka we babana befwe.

Once again my name is Mary Nasimiyu, I want to talk on how to advice our children.

Eeeh babana befwe yaba khale efwefwe nga abele khwakhakhula nende bakukhu nende bakuka.

Our children, long ago when we were growing up with our grandmothers and grandfathers.

Nga nakhwakhamenyanga nenabo mala nebakhukambila khukhwama khale khusimachamacha.

As they have been advising us living together since a long time ago from the beginning.

Nga nakhwicha nekhwola khurikhuri ese khabonakho eeh abele khukhwama khale omwana we sisoleli sachichanga khusiayo tawe.

Sine my childhood, I had never seen a boy sexually assault an animal.

Lakini khubana befwe khulwasai eeh.

But nowadays our children.

Kamalaka akako nono batumile kamalaka babana sai sekhababona babandu be sikhasi tawe.

They have disobeyed the advices by not not being attracted to women.

Balabonanga bibayu nibio balabonanga bacha khukhafu.

They are attracted to animals, they assault a cow.

Bachaa khukhafu bacha khuchimbusi.

They sexually assault cows and goats.

Nono babana befwe bano khulwasai aba kamalaka aba niko basakhulu babaelesia ke khale akako sai aba batibisie.

At the moment our children have disboyed the advices that was given to them by the elders.

Sekali kamalaka niko bekhale babechanga nenako ta. Sikila khwama khusimachamacha omwana nacha khukhafu, ekhafu yino bali abele.

They are not practicing advices that used to be followed a long time ago. According to the traditions when a child sexually assaults a cow.

Omwana sabakhama kamabele kekhafu eyo mala kanywa ta.

The child will not drink milk from that cow.

Namwe naupa ekhafu yowasio ya chirani busuku, ekhafu eyo sabakhama kamabele wanywa ta, lakini khulwasai.

When you cast a spell on your neighbours cow, you will not be allowed to drink its milk but currently.

Obona mbo khubise biefwe bino namwe muselukho ya babana bano sai babukule bibyayo biabele nibyo balosi babwe.

The current days, these children have taken the animals as their women.

Eeeh sisundi sikila babana befwe nebalachichanga khubiayo, sindu silala.

The thing that is making our children involve themselves with animals, one thing is.

Babana befwe bakali sabacha mukanisa tawe.

Most of our children do not go to church nowadays.

Sabalachinga mukanisa ta. Babana befwe bakali kakila nebacha khubiayo bacha banywa enjaka.

Most of our children are not going to church that is why they are misbehaving with animals and they smoke weed.

Banywa chiraba, banywa kamalwa enguli nekamayo omwana kakhula mala kola enju mala sa.

The grown up children use tobacco and drink traditional alcohol.

Sakayila omukhasi ta, nono nakama ebweneyi enjaka nende kamalwa kano kamuongosa sa mala kamuyila khubiayo.

He does not have a wife so when he comes from smoking weed and drinking alcohol he is controlled by the drugs to sexually assault the animals.

Basasi be banana bano nabali engo niye ali engo khakona niye samana ta, nekakhali niye kane aulile busa balakukulanga omwana wewe bali omwana woo.

The parents to the children are always at home sleeping untill they will hear people screaming about their child.

Alekanda khubiayo biefwe.

He has been assaulting our animals.

Basasi ata onyala wanyola omusasi papa omusasi omulayi kabisa, lakini omutayi kabola ali chikhu chisala likokhe.

You can even find a discplined parent but an elder once said "firewood gives birth to ashes"

Nono omusasi omulayi lakini omwana yuno khulondekhana nende.

A parent can be good but the child basing on.

Eeeh mulikhula nilio bakhulilemo nende chinjaka nende kamalwa nende khunywa khane bali binanu miraa nende bibindu bibindi bino bionakile babana befwe.

The way he has been brought up under the influence of weed, alcohol and miraa and other things has spoiled our children.

Omwana yuno nali wase.

If this child was mine.

Nali wase, omwana yuno kabali ali omwana wange.

It the child was mine.

Kenyekhana.

It is supposed.

Ekanisa emuyete, nekanisa kabali semuyeta ta.

The church to help him and if the child does not help.

Sikila nocha khumwana nga omwana wonekhana ochichanga khubiayo yubo noloma oli omwana yuno.

If you look at a misbehaved child who sexually assaults animals.

Alachichanga khubiayo biange obona mbo omusasi wewe abelela ata sakenya walomakho khumwana wewe ta. Nekakhali nali kabali omwana wase ekanisa emuyete nekanisa kali semuyeta ta.

If you tell the parent about their child misbehaving and assaulting your cows, the parent will not take it postively but if it was my child the church should help him and if the church does not help him.

Aba serikali yosi bamuwekho edisipulini.

The governmrnt to also discpline him.

Eeh ese maayi olamalome sa maayi Mary oyo niye kholomaloma, ndalomalomakho elubeka sindu nisio balanga bali kumukango.

I am Mary still talking and I want to talk about something called a stirring stick.

Maayi efwefwe khufukilanga kumukango na kumukango kukanganga.

We as mothers use the stiiring stick in preparing food (ugali) and the stiiring stick is has consequences.

Nakumukango nga nekukanganga.

Since the stiiring stick has consequences.

Maayi ewe ofukila babana boo mala nga nofukila babana boo, mala newewe obukula babana be babasio.

As mother you cook for your children and you then bewitch children of the other people.

Nolu oloka babana be babasio obukula kamaloko oloka babana be babasio, wangala babana be babasio, wonaka babana be babasio nga busia.

If you bewitch other peoples children, when a new day comes.

Babana boo bona bonakhile, mala babana boo nga nabonekhile olila oli babana base bonakhile akana omundu konaka babana base lakini sali omundu wonaka babana boo ta.

Your children will end up becoming useless and you will start complaining that someone bewitched your children yet no one would have done it.

Kamakhono koo kabukulanga kumukango nekafukila babana boo niko kakonaka babana be babasio, nono kumukango kukanganga.

Your hands that use the stiiring stick to cook for your children and still bewitch children of the other people. So the stiiring stick has consequences.

Nakamile abwenao.

I am ending there.